Long story short, I’m not known for my moral fabric. At best I would be the relatively harmless villain, or maybe an antihero. So with that in mind I turn to you, my friends of tumblr, for aid.
In recent weeks this girl and I have been having fun. (Dates, kissing, etc.). The problem lies not in our chemistry, but in our goals involving one another. See I’m just looking to date and have fun; however she seems to be looking for more.
When I realized she was getting too emotionally attached to yours truly, I explained to her that I’m not going to settle down (aka I told her we’re not going to be in that kind of relationship). I even stopped with the naughty stuff and was well behaved.
Then, a few days later, she reinstated the naughty fun. Even then I asked if she was certain given the toll it could place on her emotions. Still she continued.
Now it seems my future holds more and greater potential fun. Yet I’m now certain that she is far too emotionally invested. I’ve been debating with *looks down* him for a couple days now, and neither one of us is making much headway.
So my conundrum is as follows. Should I back off entirely in order to protect her feelings; or do I let us have some fun for as long as we can, but leave her with some heartbreak? I pose this to any and all of you.
To behave, or to misbehave? That is the question